There are, however, some things I haven’t done, despite a few reasonable requests, and that’s letting myself be filmed for the enjoyment of another. I do mean in an adult context.
Consenting adults in a trusting relationship may enjoy the odd “private home collection”. Sadly, I’m not someone who likes to participate. I would be a bit scared that my body may appear on YouTube or as a link on a social networking site. If I wanted to be a porn star, then filming wouldn’t bother me, but I am an elite escort and like a bit of privacy.
You wouldn’t believe some of the things I have been asked to do in my time whilst on a date with a client. Nothing surprises me anymore, and I am very open-minded indeed.
When I started, a client got his camcorder out. He said he thought I’d like it; I told him he should have told me first! I was in no frame of mind to pout and pose down a camera lens, so I told him either to take me out for dinner or forget the whole experience. Well, the room had cost him an arm and a leg, so with a grumble and furrowed brow, he packed it all away and called us a taxi. Did I stay longer than the two hours? No. Did he call me again? No. Did I care? No.
So now, should there be even a whisper of something I’m not sure of or something that goes against my moral code, I say no, and I walk away – I don’t even enter into a discussion. My regular clients know what they can and can’t get away with when I join them out and about. The greatest gift you can give your 24-hour Companion is respect.